Tuesday, February 26, 2013

first solid food!

....kind of.

Rice cereal is a lot like slightly grainy milk, at least the way I made it the first time.   We fed him his first bowl on Saturday morning and he has had it every morning since, though today I am going to wait until evening to feed him in hopes that it keeps his belly full through the night and maybe sleep for longer stretches.  WE'LL SEE.

Obviously we took pictures of this milestone.   Lots of pictures.

Here I am offering him his first taste.
Here he is pleased with the results.
He definitely thought he should be the one to hold the spoon.
See.
About halfway through, Rob took over.  Eli showed no bias.
He thoroughly enjoyed the entire experience.
Until next food....

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

6 months old!


Well, here we are at the half-way mark of Eli's first year.  I cannot believe how fast it goes.  People aren't exaggerating about kids growing up too fast.  They are FOR REAL.

Eli had his 6 month check up yesterday morning at 8:50 and we found out he weighs 19 pounds 2 ounces and is 28 inches long.  His head circumference is 42.5 centimeters, if you possibly care about that.

Anyway.

This past month has been BRUTAL.  
Eli caught a cold at the end of December/beginning of January and it completely destroyed any hope that his 5 hour sleep stretches at night were giving me.  Now I was lucky if he slept 2 hours straight during the night (it was usually about 45 minutes).  I took him to the doctor on January 2 just to make sure he didn't have anything more serious and the doctor did confirm it was just a cold, and recommended saline drops to help break up his congestion.  They helped slightly.  We put a humidifier in his room at that point, too.  And eventually added Vick's baby rub into the mix.

Well,  come February, ALL of his cold symptoms were still in play and he was still barely sleeping, so I called the doctor again.  He had an appointment for February 6th and we found out he had an ear infection and were prescribed amoxicillin for 10 days.

After one week of antibiotics Eli didn't seem to be doing much better.  In fact, now he was pulling on his OTHER ear and I was freaking out, so I called the doctor again.  We went in that day (February 12) and while Eli was free and clear of ear infections, we found out he had a VIRAL INFECTION in his throat.   It was mild, thankfully, but the blister was on his right side which was why he was pulling on his right ear, most likely, Dr. Herman told us.

Unfortunately there is nothing you can really do about a virus but he told me I could give him infant's motrin, which I picked up on the way home.  When we got home, Eli was fussing around and I decided to peek into his mouth and found he had finally cut his first lower incisor.  We had suspected him teething for months and so I had kinda thought his cold symptoms were being exacerbated by teething symptoms.  

Here we are a week later and he received a clean bill of health at his check up so now I'm  going to be trying to enforce sleep a little more.  I've completely backed off the last month and a half since crying it out was impossible (drainage and gagging and that whole bit) and I felt so guilty if I didn't immediately respond to his cries.  He has been spending the first part of the night in his crib and then somewhere along the line I bring him in and he sleeps the rest of the night on me.


NOW, moving on.

At 6 months old Eli's favorite things are...
+ his exersaucer!  he can spend a lot of time in there entertaining himself
+ baths/water!  he is really into splashing and trying to grab the water as it comes out of the faucet.
+ reaching/grabbing!  this baby is going after EVERYTHING.  
+ rolling!  last week he did a fully successful roll from back to tummy and he has been going crazy with it ever since.  sadly, this means i can't just lay him on the floor anymore while i try and get things done.  he has also been preferring to sleep on his stomach since he learned this new trick.
+ simon!  sometimes i think simon is eli's favorite person in our family.
+ the vacuum cleaner!  he delights in my efforts to keep our floors swept.

Things Eli may or may not enjoy...
+ reading!  he likes to eat the book, not look at it.
+ sesame street!  he seems to enjoy it when there are kids talking/kids singing but otherwise he ignores the tv.


Here's hoping the next month is at least a little easier than the last, at least as far as sleep goes.  It's kind of amazing how *little* you can handle when you haven't slept properly in half a year.

Still worth it.

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

5 months old!

Eli became 5 months old on January 18th!

Some things Eli is up to at this time...

Loves:

1. being in the exersaucer
2. silly faces/noises
3. bath time
4. mirrors
5. playing with his feet
6. squawking
7. being on his *back* in his activity gym
8. car rides
9. simon/macy/small living things that move in general
10. chewing on literally anything that will fit in his mouth
11. watching people talk
12. books (chewing on, of course)
13. sitting in the bumbo

He has not yet rolled from his back to his front.  He has rolled front to back a total of 9 times.  He has to be reeeeally motivated to do it.  Otherwise he's pretty content on his back and can't be bothered to roll around.

He has also been practicing "sitting up".  He can tripod sit for a few seconds and sometimes can balance himself the old fashioned way but obviously, being only 5 months old, he just tips over, haha.  I'm hoping he can sit up ;ong enough for his 6 month photos, which I am working on scheduling!

Eli on his 5 month birthday!

Here is a pretty crappy job on a panorama of Eli's room as it currently stands.  I ignored currently standards and got some crib bedding with a bumper pad.  In his case, I am more worried about his leg getting stuck in the bars than suffocating, as he was waking up many nights kicking the side of his crib.  Plus it's super cute and I got the entire set for $35 at Once Upon a Child!

Also, still no tooth yet, and he hasn't had any solid foods.  I'm planning on starting that after talking with his pediatrician about the best options at his 6 month checkup!

*Also to note, I recently received a mother/baby scale and according to it Eli weighs TWENTY POUNDS. if that's true, he gained almost 3 entire pounds in about a month and a week.

*Correction: He weighs 18.8 pounds.  I tried it a few more times.  It makes more sense, especially since he has had a cold this ENTIRE month so far and hasn't been eating as much as usual.

Friday, January 4, 2013

lately.

I am going to be honest, lately I have been having a lot of negative thoughts.

Eli has had a cold for about a week and a half now and for me that means only a few broken hours of sleep a night.  I'm tired.  I'm really, really tired.

Over the past couple years I've followed a lot of blogs.  These are usually the blogs of people who, to me, appear to have their lives together.  They are the type of people that cook all their meals from scratch (organic, of course...probably locally grown, too), build their own furniture, and still have time to look like supermodels while raising multiple children.

Initially (you know, before I had a babe of my own) this was really inspiring because hey! I would totally love to be that kind of mom!

Except...then I had a kid.

And every day is a lot like treading water, just trying to stay afloat.  I don't have time/energy/will to do all those things that looked so inspiring pre-baby.  Don't get me wrong, having a baby is really awesome.  But it's also really a lot of work.

And I'm tired.

Now those blogs that once inspired me kind of annoy me.  I am envious of their ability to even make their lives have the appearance of being so together.

I am annoyed because my husband doesn't come home from work and immediately become involved with our child.  He usually gets on the computer and we don't have a real conversation.  I am annoyed because if I even make it to the grocery store and buy fresh ingredients to make something for dinner, I usually don't even do anything with said ingredients and then they rot, and then I throw them away. I am annoyed because I get on Facebook and see friends post statuses complaining that their baby didn't sleep that night when my baby has slept through the night two or three times since I brought him home from the hospital (and for the record...through the night means 6+ hours...we've done 7).  I'm annoyed because I have bags under my eyes and no amount of concealer can hide the fact that I just need a freaking nap.  Mostly I'm annoyed because I can't choose to be happy despite these things.

I guess my New Years resolution should be to just "deal with it" in a positive way.  I don't know exactly what that would look like in my life, but when I do, I'll let you know...

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Merry Christmas!



We had a really good first Christmas with Eli.   For the record, Christmas is about 1000x better with a baby.  The above photos are of Eli with my little cousin, Chloe, who will be 3 at the beginning of next month.  She is totally into Eli and I think it's too sweet.  She didn't even make a fuss when he started ripping her hair!

Thursday, December 20, 2012

4 months!

As of 12:52 on the 18th, my baby boy is 4 months old!

Here are some photos from the past month:

Hanging out.
First play date with the rest of the currently birthed 3A babies.
Bumbo-ing it up in front of the Christmas tree in his Santa bib.  How festive.

I like to think in this picture he is saying, "What the, mom!  I'm in my diaper!"
Officially 4 months old!
Waiting for dad to get home.
Going after his feet.

Eli's 4 month measurements:
length - 27 1/4 inches!
weight - 17 pounds 3 ounces!
90-95 percentiles for all measurements

Things Eli enjoys at 4 months:
- Watching Simon
- Grabbing anything he can get his hands on (especially momma's hair)
- Grabbing his feet
- Sitting up (with aids, obviously)
- Watching mom and dad talk :)
- Looking in mirrors
- Bath time (still)
- Chewing on toys, his sleeves, or people's hands
- Car rides
- Shopping (he likes to watch the lights and different scenery passing)

We also suspect Eli is teething, though no tooth can be felt yet.  He drools incessantly and has some very cranky times...also trouble sleeping.  He has started waking up several times a night again crying out, which we assume is because he is in pain.  Hopefully this passes soon because we could all use a little more sleep around here :)

Saturday, December 8, 2012

resolutions?

January first is exactly twenty-four days away.  This year I am actually setting some goals for myself, because since having a baby I feel a lot of the time my life is out of control and at the end of the day I realize all I really did was survive.

So, without further ado, my list of goals for the new year...

+ Get into shape.  I mean, duh.  Isn't this on everyone's list every year?  But this year it is a little more important to me.  Post-baby body needs it.  I am actually just a few pounds shy of my pre-pregnancy weight, which was a goal I had for myself by the end of the year, but I still can't fit into some of my pants.  My hips don't lie.

+ Choose my favorites and start printing from the zillions of photos I've taken of Eli and arranging them into some kind of coherent album we can enjoy in the coming years.

+ Get that blog crap up and running.  I talk about it sometimes.

+ I really want to make/start a quilt.  I've never done this before, but I feel like I could do it.  I was thinking it would be nice to make one for Eli's first big boy bed, thus giving myself a couple years...and a smaller quilt :)

+ Be thankful for what I already have and stop wanting so much.  I mean, I know Thanksgiving has come and gone so I'm a bit fashionably late but I keep finding myself in these modes where I think I need to obtain things and make my life look a certain way and I'll be happier.  Not true, guys, not true.  I think we all know this but it's hard not to get caught up in it.

+ Rekindle and build new friendships.  I am a pretty introverted person.  Since I was a kid I basically have only kept one or two people close at a time.  It's been a long time since I have really felt connected to and able to be completely myself around another person (aside from Rob, obv).  I'm not a social butterfly, my post-college jobs have been nanny positions so I haven't made friends with colleagues, and now I am a stay at home mom in a neighborhood full of old people.  


Stuff like that.

And to close, here's a picture of Eli lounging in his bouncy seat while I was doing something in the kitchen.  Seriously, I looked over and the kid had his feet crossed and his arm behind his head watching the "Itsy Bitsy Spider" show.  Please ignore the unfinished baseboards.